Off the Table

An Exposé on our Transformation into a

Non-Sexual, Polyamorous Marriage

A two hour chat + Q&A featuring all of the vulnerable details about our healthy, loving, and paradigm-shaking journey from a sexual to a non-sexual polyamorous marriage.

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In this live recorded zoom call The Daylovers shared their entire relationship backstory, Jessica’s realization that sex was no longer on the table for her, how she finally confessed it to Joe, her over-intellectualized-but-highly-relatable understanding of why this is what she feels is best for their relationship, Joe’s initial reaction (which was painful and brought up a lot of insecurities as a man), and how he came to peace and genuine agreement with it...and even ended up excited at the opportunity to customize a relationship with his favorite person and forever-wife.

They also both shared how this personal evolution became their gateway into Relationship Anarchy, and how they’ve never looked back.

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Other important nuances:

Jessica’s demisexuality and the interactions of it all...

Their active and fulfilling sex lives with other people (gasp)...

Tales about how, for them personally, none of this would possible without polyamory, non-violent communication, and lots of inner work.

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We send you love and hope, and want you to know that you and your partner both deserve the relationship you desire. You both deserve romantic and sexual fulfillment. You are not a bad person for wanting more or less than your current arrangement calls for.

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